What is this horrible thing? I mean, really! What is jealousy? It seems the number 1 killer of all things good between man and woman. Sometimes it is just a small ghost of the past lingering, sometimes it is an elephant in the room, sometimes its fact sometimes its fiction.. whatever it is, its toxic. Adultery never happens under your nose. And it is not what happens on a boys/girls's night out. Its a planned and pepped matter. Sure, there will be many cases of drunken stupidity as well, but that's not deliberate cheating. However real adultery is ongoing. It requires effort and planning. If the partner is jealous or not its still going to happen if the will to do it is there. What I mean is jealousy is not a preventive measure, its just futile. It creates distance. It achieves nada. What will be will be regardless. Anyone in a committed relationship know the rules. Know what they are gambling with. Know the stakes. If they are willing to loose the stake, is calling, checking, arguing, spying etc really worth it? For what? You can't predict the inevitable. But you can go about your life telling yourself you are special. And if the person you love wants someone else, the truth will see light one day anyway, so why create negativity trying to prove something that may or may not be true? Either way.. we can't force anybody to love us. Is the checking of email, cellphone, pockets, skype,general spying and inquisitions really serving a purpose? What's really going to come out of it? We don't own each other. Ever. We can only have hope and faith in eachother, and live one day at a time.
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we all know the rules but its never ok to bend them to suit yourself "i learned the hard way"
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