Wednesday, June 29, 2011

Try to love again, and again


Love...
Often I wonder about the concept of love when I'm single. What is it? Why is it so damn important? What does it feel like? What does being in love really feel like?
When do you know you have fallen? When do you know you have fallen out of it?
I doubted many ways to love before. For example, I thought the fact friendship can grow into a romance (assuming there were NO previous "sparks")was just rubbish. I'm older now and know that it can happen. Friends can slowly fall as madly and deeply in love as any other type of romance. The one I know the best is the all-consuming, flamenco-playing, rollercoaster-ride, whirlwind/ fire & ice romance that hits like a tornado and turn you into a mad version of yourself for the duration of the relationship(at least through the honey-moon period). It seems everything is possible! Someone close to me just met, and instantly they just knew. Yes. As simple as that. They just clicked, and are getting married. N
o hesitations, no doubt no looking back..
I've always said that the concept of "soul-mate" (damn you yanks) is a myth. There are millions of wonderful and special people out there!!
Every one of them will seem as "the one" at the time.. but it's usually "the one for now", if you catch my drift? But. And this is one biggie. There is an exception. The cynic in me wants to spank me with a rusty land-mover. Even if you have had thoughts about an ex being "the one", you could easily have been mistaken. He was one of the many soul-mates out there,- but not the one for always. But that does not mean there is no such thing. You have to kiss a few frogs to find a prince.
When the one for always comes along, you feel at home. No flamenco, no bravado, no fighting & making-up, no fear. It's like finding a lighthouse. Its bright, it wants only to guide you to the safe shore.
Anchored. Unafraid. Strong. Loved. Where are my tissues?

Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Forgotten TV shows we won't admit to have watched


Full House
Growing Pains
Alf
Perfect Strangers
Family Matters
Step by Step
Full House
Golden Girls
The wonder years
Love Boat

Monday, June 27, 2011

Most annoying celebrities


Yes, I am in list-making mode lately.
MOST ANNOYING CELEBRITIES

1. The one and (thankfully) the only JUSTIN BIBER
2. Sorry. She's just too damn perfect. J-Lo (from the block my ass)
3. KENDRA, HOLLY and all of the playboy girls
4. ANNE ROBINSON
5. TOM CRUISE
6. Sorry boys... And ps. I used to dig her too, but lately it's too much: Angelina Jolie
7. Jordan
8. Heidi Montag
9. Bono
10. Dr. Phil

Sunday, June 26, 2011

Getting older. Time flies


What days are the same? How days are the same.. How strange the flow of time?.Time lost all sense of duration, distance and scope for now. I don’t see difference between week and weekend, week and month, month and year. All in one never-ending roll of daylight (which is easy to shut out) and nighttimes (which is difficult to ignore). When did time start floating by unrecognised? Since when have weeks gone into months and uneventfully parked behind each other forming something supposedly called a year in life of me? What happened to make me so oblivious to the fact I am to cherish each day?

Sunday, June 19, 2011

Sunday, June 12, 2011

List of most annoying lyrics EVER!

As a music lover writing the list of irritating and annoying hits has
put me in a funky mood. Below you will find a new list. A top of the
bad, again. This time I present my l list of my pet hate lyrics. Not
everyone pay attention to lyrics as I do, but trust me, once you do
you'll be surprise at all the rubbish lyrics around. The song itself
may be perfectly fine, yet once noticing the actual words you go "Hang
on a minute here.. What on earth are they on about?".. Some are just
plain BAD ( such as EVERY lyric by rapper Soulja Boy.. a quick listen
to his hit "crank that" and I'm sure you will agree). Some seem fine
enough until you listen more closely and realize it makes no sense at
all- they might even be contradictory or sense with no sense if that
makes sense ( Like "please forgive me" by Bryan Adams" or "More than
words" by Extreme. I could go on..). Another category of BS texts are
the once that seem to be done (probably have been) written in a state
of drunk and/or drugged up haze. It's pure gibberish, but most of us
feel that there must be something awfully symbolic about it..
Sometimes that may be the case.. but .I give you "I am the walrus" by
the Beatles "Sitting on a cornflake waiting for the van to come... I
am the egg-man...I am the walrus" or Presidents of the United State's
of America's song "Peaches"..-"Peaches come from a can. They were put
there by a man. In a factory down-town"..
Then some are lyrics that are just too opulent, pompous, filled with
cliché's and ..just pass on the bucket... Celine Dion has a lot to
answer for.. so does Mariah and most boy-bands in matching outfits
with dance-routines. And off-course: antichrist himself Justin Biber.
Enough said. Here is the list.
No ranked order.

"Ebeneezer Goode" - The Shamen
"Yellow Submarine" - The Beatles
"No Limit" - 2Unlimited ("No no no no no no no no no no no no there's
no lyrics")
"No air" - Jordin Sparks ( I hope she never found a way to breathe with no air)
"Welcome to the parade" - My Chemical romance
"Rhythm is a dancer" - Snap
"Blood on the dance floor" - M.Jackson (RIP) "Blood is on the dance
floor. Blood is on the knife. Susie's got your number And Susie says
it right"
"Butterfly" - Crazy town ("My lifestyle's wild I was living like a
wild-child. trapped on a short leash paroled the police files. So
YO...I see the sun breaking down into dark clouds..)
"Calling mister vain" - (Don't remember the dude, and can't be asked
finding out. but he wants me and he wants me now.. cause he is Mr.
Vain)
"If you're not the one" - The prince of gay songs Daniel Beddingfield
"If I don't need you then why am I crying on my bed..")
"The Riddle" - Nik Kershaw
"Some people" - Cliff Richard (I could possibly make a separate list
here altogether, but I just had breakfast and would like to keep it
that way)
"High Voltage" - Electric 6
"But I won't do that" - Meatloaf (just exactly out of anything is it
that he will not do? shove a cucumber up his ass and swing in the
chandelier? Get married? Buy tampons? ..we will never know)
"Yellow lemon tree" - Fool's Garden
"Email my heart" - Britney Spears

Sunday, June 5, 2011

Friday, June 3, 2011

Random facts at end of a week


At the moment I am a lady of pleasures. Means I need to organize my days in a whole new way. Rat-race free but challenging as hell. No clients to think of, no bosses, no board, no budgets, no accounting... Either way.. I am enjoying a wee time-off. Enough sentimental blah.. I learned a few new things and I will share them with you:

- The Caribbean cuisine is the most diverse influenced cuisine in the world.. ( I was gonna include the countries/continents involved, but that's no fun.) Ah what the hell.. It's influenced by all the settlers that have visited and stayed. Yes.. what a mix! Things to ponder when there is time on hand to cook.

-BLONDE MOMENT ALERT!!!! The name Pineapple is applied to this fruit originally by the Spaniards setting sails.. because it looks like "It was given the name pineapple due to its resemblance to a pine cone" duh.. Where between apple and cone did the peroxide take charge?

- First real sign I've had in a long time that actually shows we are prone to self-beating, hedonisticish and miserly self-poisonous obsession with self. Why we often go sad instead of becoming American, lol. Plato was very focussed on the concept of Uroborus The Ouroboros (or Uroborus)[1] is an ancient symbol depicting a serpent or dragon eating its own tail. It comes from the Greek words oura (Greek ουρά) meaning "tail" and bόros (Greek βόρος) meaning "eating", thus "he who eats the tail".[2]( Wikipedia)

- Let me just throw in for absolute blondness that I also learned the real meaning of the word "serpent".. Yes, I know now that it is a snake... I'm asking myself what I used too think it was... No need rub it in!

- The wonderful meaning in educated words of the saying "the simplest explanation is most likely the correct one." Referred to the Latin expression "lex parsimoniae". Which again lead to the theory of "Occamis/Occam's Razor", again explained as the law of succinctnes. For those of you who, as I, don't feel too familiar with succinctness.. it says to be " Characterized by clear, precise expression in few words; concise and terse"
May I add however, to my light disappointment, when wikipedia tells you "This summary is misleading, however, since the principle is actually focused on shifting the burden of proof in discussions.[3] That is, the razor is a principle that suggests we should tend towards simpler theories (see justifications section below) until we can trade some simplicity for increased explanatory power. Contrary to the popular summary, the simplest available theory is sometimes a less accurate explanation. Philosophers also add that the exact meaning of "simplest" can be nuanced in the first place.[4]" I clocked out..and opened a nice red w...

- Cancer. Are we all born with cancer or not? many "Opinion leaders" claim to have the key to cancer in us from birth. I have an inkling that the camp which makes the theory we all have the "necessary ingredient" in us, then it's Russian roulette with that as the rest in life.
Many hours on-line has given no answer. Regardless how many sources I seek they always weigh 50/50. More wine!!!!

- That Irish Captain's make the best lovers!

Thursday, June 2, 2011

List of most annoying songs EVER!


You know those songs you like at first, but after a while you just want to roll over and die when they come on? Sadly songs you sang along with to start off with can turn into diabolical torture. Here is my list of songs that turned on me, and some that I hated with a passion from the get go.
Not in ranked order.
1. Mm Bop - Hanson

2. Mambo number 5 - Lou Bega

3. Put your hands up for Detroit- Fedde le grand

4. The Ketchup song

5. Blue (DaBaDee) Eiffel 65

6. Baby - Justin Biber

7. Friday - Rebecca Black

8. Get a job - Offspring

9. My heart will go on - Celine Dion

10. Drugosta dei tei (NUMA) - Haiducii

11. Love is a wonderful thing - Michael Bolton

12. Who saved the world - Beyonce

13. My humps - Black Eyed Peas

14. What's up - 4 non Blondes

15. Life is Life - Opus

16. Knocking on heavens door - Guns and roses

17. I will always love you - Whitney H

18. Macarena - Los del rio

19. Beautiful - James Blunt

20. Mmm Mmm Mmm Mmm – Crash Test Dummies

21. Shiny Happy People - REM

22. Hi Baby - DJ Oetzi

23. Not a girl/Not yet a woman - Brittney

Additions are welcome!